Hemroids Condition_symptoms

PINA an unexpected collapse

When Pina enters school is aware of the disease, adequate, with good manners, intelligent, unfortunately, full of anxiety.

is called after a few weeks after admission because he is nervous and Confabula!
not looking at me while I try gently to speak to her, her gaze wanders away. E 'scared, walking back and forth, speaking without you can even grab a word, it seems certain passages in Latin. I even want her as the technique Validation of breath, like you, walk with her. At one point he says "there is nothing."

With the help of the technique of re-structuring ("Pina there's nothing left?") I get a look. Then again "are nothing ... I have no one ... not any more." E 'desperate, with the look of facial expression gives me a feeling of inevitability as things like whatever you do when the worst happens, then finally set the tension and repeated cries more Sometimes "I do not know." "What can we do? - I say - to go for help? ". She: "Mom, Mom."
When he returns to breathe normally and it seems to be a bit 'better, I leave knowing that I will return in the following days and she tells me with my enormous surprise, "you are so dear, you are very good, it is not easy."

Pina opens slowly speaking of his great pain. The stories of these people are often so strange is that its hard to think of them real. But the point is that in either case the feelings and emotions they express are authentic, it is important to us.

One day he tells me through tears and agitation with a dear friend (I later discovered that it was the sister) had committed suicide years earlier. I had no news about it. What Pina has made good on that day was to speak, albeit with a bit 'of confusion, the enormous guilt that plagued and perhaps that was held in for too long, denying it. A tremendous sense of guilt, deadly, not to have understood the gravity of the situation of this woman who took his own life while she was on vacation. The idea of \u200b\u200bnot being able to save it must have been terrible for her to bear. "I did not realize his despair is left alone ... ... I had made an appointment with a specialist ... but her mother, Mom, help! ".

In the same conversation more tears and more anger for the "bad people" who spoke ill of the woman "as in that film, with the doctor." After some 'confusion of new thoughts are organized, "said she was the mistress of a priest ... they make jokes about that movie ... where a woman falls in love with the doctor." "The Thorn Birds? - I say that assuming the doctor is actually a priest - "yes, yes ... but the jokes kill." How many more

this woman was able to express emotions related to real facts and not, when she felt harassed, neglected, robbed. He was obsessed
by a lady (who actually had the same surname) why he stole the name! As if to denounce the theft of his sense of identity.

How much helpful Validation techniques, such as that of being able to put aside my emotions! It is far easier to deal with a person with a story so compelling and not be overwhelmed. E 'own important is this technique because this is perhaps the only possible way to help. Involvement would be different if we did feel too locked inside.

Pina worse, worse to walk more and do not speak no more. There are still desperate eyes and shortness of breath. In
one of the last opportunities to meet me says "do not know, I do not understand anything any more, maybe waste.

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are called in to a shelter difficult.

Before me there's a tiny lady, looking very frightened, surrounded by children, the nurse, social worker and an assistant a bit 'on the sidelines. I was told quickly that they are all worried because she has major heart problems for which all this fear, anxiety, all this ill are dangerous. She absolutely does not want to be here. The various people around, very gently, trying to make her understand that there will be all right, that will be taken care of, that need help and street saying.

Mrs. Brown, who earlier had also had a moment of aggression, is now silent, their eyes puffy and takes off his coat and hat. As yet I only see (the face deeply sad, the anxiety takes over) is addressed to a minor child and stroking with all possible sweetness and tears begged him to bring her home.
Those poor children were so bad that they thought more than once to really bring it home. With all the work they had done in recent years to manage it was unthinkable!
arrives at this point also a doctor, to monitor the situation appropriately named heart and which also fills kindness of this patient much in need. Slowly the lady calmly.

I therefore insert in this difficult situation by asking what the anxiety, I am interested in her and the emotions he feels without feeling the need to convince her that there will be all right. My priority is to "listen" to make it feel free to express first of all, not smothered by events. I tell myself that I would feel for him so ... the liberty of crying and despair. The eyes of the others were a bit 'surprised at my behavior, but this is normal.

So the little lady began to feel around him a less hostile environment, more in tune with what you try, is in me someone who does not smile at all, not trying to calm her down, even someone who looks at its very sad. Someone who understands and will enter empathetically into her emotion. After hours

able to take off her coat.

I have met many times Bruna, validating the various reasons why she wept, tolerating with the help of his colleagues insisted. It was just a pity his behavioral disorder. These patients are, however, but of the accusers have a vision of things as those who suffer injustice. Now it was the roommate that he had a spite, now that my fingers were hurt, now they had stolen the bottle of water, now they said a bad word. The need was always able to speak, cry, be compatible (to find someone you feel compassion).

What really is difficult, in my opinion, is to learn to give way to emotion of the other, whatever it is, without thinking that we need to resolve the situation . Look for a solution because we work very hard emotionally and alienates us from the dire need that the other has to be heard. It is not wrong if you do not do this, but greatly enhances the mood in any one of us if you feel heard and understood first.