Parlando con il figlio di Stefania, presente and emotionally very attached to her, I had the confirmation of the need to help those families who are typically overwhelmed by a storm sudden and unexpected, frightening, upsetting, frightening.
I said that going by her mother one Christmas, when already there was something wrong with that of their neighbors, there is first an unknown woman, who gets angry at him and screams blamed for something that is not at all clear. He said he had to do everything alone, that he left her there while she was breastfeeding that baby! Slowly, the argument takes form: Stephanie seems to speak with your husband, that perhaps have neglected a bit 'when she needed help e conforto. Possiamo andare a immaginazione e intuire una fase post- partum un po’ difficile. Come sempre sapere è d’aiuto ma non indispensabile.
Come se la sarà cavata quel figlio per calmare la mamma? Quanto si sarà spaventato, come si sarà sentito disorientato a sua volta quando la mamma d’incanto è tornata alla normalità chiedendogli cosa voleva per cena!
Questo figlio chiede aiuto. Che qualcuno gli spieghi cosa lo aspetta, come le deve rispondere quando lei gli parla in quel modo un po’ confuso, come si deve comportare con una persona tanto strana e diversa.
Qualche risposta a questi quesiti c’è. Così parlo con questo figlio di come si fa per entrare the mother in the world, empathy and legitimacy, questions that investigate the facts should show the emotion he wants out. Try to explain how to be authentic while complying strange thoughts. I mean the ability to be generic while participating with the sentiments of sincere transport, the ability to interact in new ways. I know it will not be a walk. Do not forget that the transport and emotional conflicts that exist between people of the same family affected much.
Back to Stefania. Validation with you I really help. When I enter the department often find myself agitated, as with the rush on him, seeking help because Must go home, but before going to take the bread, which then must cook something to the men returning from work. I still remember what it meant for us to work out an insistent demand by patients: it was pure frustration. We did not know what to say, how! Them out a bit '? Do something that will distract him? He was always totally useless! By Stefania
luckily just start well then she does almost everything. Rephrase his words confused and she tells me better. Wonder where to go, she describes the streets, the shops. I speak with her breathing fast pace, she expresses her anxiety even more want to go home ... then suddenly stops, turns and si avvia col suo incedere svelto ed elegante dicendomi: “mi scusi ma devo proprio andare”.
Si attraversano varie fasi con Stefania, ora più agitata ora meno, ora stringe amicizie e gode di una qualche complicità, ora si isola un po’. Ci fa anche tanto ridere data la sua simpatica parlata toscana. Si racconta volentieri ed è una risorsa nel gruppo Validation, dove emana una energia unica.
E’ confusa, non lo si può negare, ma se si riesce a dare importanza alle emozioni che lei esprime, capita di non far più caso alla mancanza di logica nei suoi discorsi.
Ad esempio dice spesso di avere due figli quando ne ha uno solo. L’altro dalla descrizione è il nipote, che “è even sweeter than the first, "she says. During a group meeting once told us with a lot of lively gestures and strange details, of a certain chocolate bar that would bring his second son, because he always brings something. At one point, adding: "who believe, not me, are eaten! And 'there in the drawer, I hold close to me I remember. " Here agree with me that it does not matter who is wrong to say instead of child or grandchild who is not reasonable to expect to keep as a souvenir chocolate, in front of a feeling so great!
What makes her really well and we know you have heard and received its sometimes terrible to volte meravigliose emozioni.
I said that going by her mother one Christmas, when already there was something wrong with that of their neighbors, there is first an unknown woman, who gets angry at him and screams blamed for something that is not at all clear. He said he had to do everything alone, that he left her there while she was breastfeeding that baby! Slowly, the argument takes form: Stephanie seems to speak with your husband, that perhaps have neglected a bit 'when she needed help e conforto. Possiamo andare a immaginazione e intuire una fase post- partum un po’ difficile. Come sempre sapere è d’aiuto ma non indispensabile.
Come se la sarà cavata quel figlio per calmare la mamma? Quanto si sarà spaventato, come si sarà sentito disorientato a sua volta quando la mamma d’incanto è tornata alla normalità chiedendogli cosa voleva per cena!
Questo figlio chiede aiuto. Che qualcuno gli spieghi cosa lo aspetta, come le deve rispondere quando lei gli parla in quel modo un po’ confuso, come si deve comportare con una persona tanto strana e diversa.
Qualche risposta a questi quesiti c’è. Così parlo con questo figlio di come si fa per entrare the mother in the world, empathy and legitimacy, questions that investigate the facts should show the emotion he wants out. Try to explain how to be authentic while complying strange thoughts. I mean the ability to be generic while participating with the sentiments of sincere transport, the ability to interact in new ways. I know it will not be a walk. Do not forget that the transport and emotional conflicts that exist between people of the same family affected much.
Back to Stefania. Validation with you I really help. When I enter the department often find myself agitated, as with the rush on him, seeking help because Must go home, but before going to take the bread, which then must cook something to the men returning from work. I still remember what it meant for us to work out an insistent demand by patients: it was pure frustration. We did not know what to say, how! Them out a bit '? Do something that will distract him? He was always totally useless! By Stefania
luckily just start well then she does almost everything. Rephrase his words confused and she tells me better. Wonder where to go, she describes the streets, the shops. I speak with her breathing fast pace, she expresses her anxiety even more want to go home ... then suddenly stops, turns and si avvia col suo incedere svelto ed elegante dicendomi: “mi scusi ma devo proprio andare”.
Si attraversano varie fasi con Stefania, ora più agitata ora meno, ora stringe amicizie e gode di una qualche complicità, ora si isola un po’. Ci fa anche tanto ridere data la sua simpatica parlata toscana. Si racconta volentieri ed è una risorsa nel gruppo Validation, dove emana una energia unica.
E’ confusa, non lo si può negare, ma se si riesce a dare importanza alle emozioni che lei esprime, capita di non far più caso alla mancanza di logica nei suoi discorsi.
Ad esempio dice spesso di avere due figli quando ne ha uno solo. L’altro dalla descrizione è il nipote, che “è even sweeter than the first, "she says. During a group meeting once told us with a lot of lively gestures and strange details, of a certain chocolate bar that would bring his second son, because he always brings something. At one point, adding: "who believe, not me, are eaten! And 'there in the drawer, I hold close to me I remember. " Here agree with me that it does not matter who is wrong to say instead of child or grandchild who is not reasonable to expect to keep as a souvenir chocolate, in front of a feeling so great!
What makes her really well and we know you have heard and received its sometimes terrible to volte meravigliose emozioni.
